Some of us are born to accept service from others; and others of us are
born to serve and be of service. Personal freedom is behind what drives
me in everything that I do - to always seek the truth of things, to
blog, to practice living an unconventional life. Likewise, personal
freedom drives others to serve.
D/s relationship is most clearly seen in the qualities that masters and
slaves share. The master (dominant) can have no more authority than the
submissive (slave) is willing to grant - by her act of submission and
the manifestation of her obedience. Without obedience, authority is
meaningless. Without authority there is no one to obey.
Myth is a huge part of the ethos of the Lifestyle. My historical
investigations and subsequent conversations seek to make things a bit
more real. It should make playtime more sharply focused.